101 Kinky Sex Ideas To Blow Your Lover’s Mind

Last Updated: 02 August 2019

Want to spice things up?

Here’s a list of dirty and kinky sex ideas to make your sex life juicier. We got ideas about kinky games, positions, fetishes, fantasies, among others.

1. Tie your lover up on a bed or a chair, cover the eyes with a blindfold and tease him/her with a vibrator all over the body. Alternatively, instead of a vibrator use a feather, ice-cubes, liquid wax from a burning candle or just your fingers.

2. Oil each other up and start wrestling. Make it kinky by trying to put your finger or a butt-plug in the butt hole of your partner. Your goal is to avoid being sodomized by your partner. You lose if you got sodomized.

3. Get naked in the pool and give each other a blowjob under water or go diving naked and have sex underwater while enjoying the view.

4. Have sex with your partner while watching a 3D porn with a VR headphone on. The point is to imagine yourself having sex with the porn-star in the film by using the body of your partner.

5. Ask your partner before-hand what he/she hates the most. It could be a clown or a politician. On Halloween or any day of the year, tie him/her first on bed and then put on the costume and surprise them. Having sex with something you hate or fear is extremely kinky.

6. Buy a vibrator with a remote control, put them on and go out with your friends. Now, try to give your partner an orgasm in front of everyone by using the remote controle of the vibrator.

7. Let a third person have sex with your partner while you watch from a distance via a camera. Or you can stay in the room watch them and masturbate.

8. Straight people, go have sex with someone of your same sex. Are you gay, then do the opposite. Straight guys dare to have a sexual encounter with a shemale.

9. Invite some friends over and let them sleep with your significant other while you’re watching.

10. Pick up a stranger and make out with them.

11. Get a strap-on dildo and dominate your man with some intensive back door actions. Use your finger or a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s prostate while giving him a blowie.

12. Ask the delivery guy or your handy-man if you can tip him with a quick blowie. To make it more intense, put on a sexy lingerie before asking. It sounds like a crazy and unrealistic idea, but this does happen in real life.

13. Try a complete Body Worship: massage, lick, kiss and explore your lover’s body. Use vibrators, feathers, etc. to make it more intense. Other variations are: Penis Worship, Vagina Worship, Buttocks Worship, Breast Worship, Muscle Worship, Foot Worship. Here your primary focus is these specific area of the body. Combine Body Worship with food and drinks, such as whipped cream, chocolate sauce, champagne, honey, butterscotch sauce, strawberries, grapes, etc.

14. Call a phone sex hotline and get your sexy on.

15. Dress up as his ultimate fantasy and stay in character all night.

16. Visit a sex club and watch everyone else have sex.

17. Touch your partner from head to toe…only with your breath.

18. Play a spank game. The loser gets spanked. Game Examples: Chapstick Challenge – Rock, Paper, Scissors – Coin Toss.

19. Get it on while flying on an airplane.

20. Do it on a hotel balcony.

21. Demand all oral sex – and nothing else.

22. Videotape your action.

23. Try out Japanese rope bondage.

24. Come all over your lover’s face.

25. Pull your lover’s hair as they are coming.

26. Wait on the bed for your lover wearing nothing at all.

27. Bend over a chair and invite your partner to take you.

28. Invite a photographer into the room to capture your lovemaking.

29. Wear high heels to bed.

30. Make your lover dress up in your clothes.

31. Explore domination and submission.

32. Blindfold your partner and make them guess who is fucking them. You – or someone else?

33. Suck on your lover’s balls while he jacks off.

34. Masturbate in front of your partner.

35. Slide your penis between her breasts and have sex with her that way.

36. Take photographs of each other to post on the internet.

37. Butt plugs are an ass lover’s best friend.

38. Lead your lover around by a leash.

39. Stay naked at home all day and have sex as often as possible.

40. Lube yourself up, spread your cheeks, and invite your partner to take your ass.

41. Go through every position in the Kama Sutra.

42. Invest in nipple clamps and let the games begin!

43. Clothespins provide pressure on delicate body parts – try it!

44. Give your partner head while they are driving.

45. Suck on your lover’s toes while they are tied up.

46. Try out a double-ended dildo.

47. Get right on the edge of orgasm…but don’t let each other come all night long.

48. Wear bright red lipstick as your suck your partner’s cock.

49. Surprise your partner with quickie sex at work.

50. Convince your partner to wear your lingerie.

51. Keep your panties on while you have sex.

52. Wear leather outfits while you go at it.

53. Get a riding crop from the sex toy store and “ride” your partner with it.

54. Get a vibrator with a remote and go out on the town together.

55. Do it in your old childhood bedroom.

56. Have sex with your lover in the public Jacuzzi at a hotel.

57. “Torture” your lover with ice all over their body.

58. Ask your lover to suck another man’s cock.

59. Do the nasty in the snow!

60. Have sex in the same room with another couple and watch each other.

61. Purchase the largest dildo you can find and see how much of it she can take.

62. Take a class on striptease and then surprise your partner.

63. Find his prostate and massage it until he comes.

64. Use sex toys to fill up every hole.

65. Slide pieces of fruit into your lover’s pussy and suck them out.

66. Before you have anal sex, give your partner an enema.

67. Slip your finger up your man’s ass right as he’s about to come.

68. Threaten to fuck him hard up the ass if he doesn’t make you come properly!

69. Drip soy-wax cool candles all over your partner’s body.

70. Use Pop Rocks to give your lover a sexy, bubbly sensation as you go down.

71. Hire a man or woman from an escort service and play to your heart’s content.

72. Compete to see who can come first.

73. Fuck each other in a mirrored room.

74. Have “sliding sex” by lying down a shower curtain on the floor and covering each other with olive oil.

75. Explore needle play – especially on the nipples.

76. Spank your partner with a hairbrush.

77. Watch two men go at it – or two women, whatever floats your boat.

78. Have sex in the parking lot of the sex toy store.

79. Pick up a stranger and have sex with them while your lover watches.

80. Make your partner wear a cock ring that will make him last longer.

81. Make a point of fucking for as long as you can – the point is to be sore as hell in the morning!

82. Go down on a man in a crowded place, like a bar.

83. After you’ve come inside your woman, lick your own come out of her.

84. Pretend to be a cop picking up a prostitute, and do it in a public park.

85. If he comes in your mouth, kiss him when he’s done.

86. Use toys to find her g-spot and see what you can do with it!

87. Do your Kegel exercises while he is inside you.

88. Get your tongue pierced to give your lover a more sensual thrill.

89. Use a penis extender to give your woman a little something more.

90. Become your partner’s sex slave for an evening.

91. Dress up in some of the kinkier fetishes – horse and rider is a good one.

92. Host an “interrogation” – tie your partner up and “torture” them with pleasures as they answer naughty questions.

93. Use a toy that offers a tiny electrical jolt on your partner.

94. Get a sensual tattoo on one of your most delicate body parts.

95. Get a “pocket pussy” for him and fulfill that fantasy of having more than one pussy at a time…

96. Give someone their first gay or lesbian experience.

97. Invest in sex furniture, like the Liberator.

98. Explore her body and try to make her “squirt” when she comes.

99. With more than one man? Let them all come on your body and cover you with it.

100. Have sex standing up in the shower.

101. Ask your partner what their deepest, darkest fantasy is…and make it happen!

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